Posted: Dec 9, 2009 11:26 pm
I'dHave SlappedHer, please tell me you are taking the piss, and I just don't know you well enough to get that in your post.
On the off chance that you are serious, I thought I would tell you about how Bob treated people in the real world while he was alive. Often he would buy the bums he would encounter on his way home from the night-shift coffee and pastries, even though he wasn't rolling in the dough himself. Last Christmas, Bob left our family's house early to take a person he barely knew, but didn't have anywhere to go for the holidays, to a Chinese buffet for food and conversation. He treated everyone the same, regardless of gender, race, socio-economic class, etc.
I wasn't at any of these shows where you claim he harassed women, but I find it very interesting that not one of the thousands of photos or negatives which I have gone through in the past week-and-a-half, have been degrading or offensive to me as a woman or as a feminist.
His sense of humor was definitely crooked and way off-color, but that was Bob, a consummate teaser. If he could get you going (which it sounds like he did) he could be merciless.
Disrespectful is one thing, but flat out wrong must be corrected.