Posted: Mar 6, 2008 4:56 pm
It totally depends. Most of my closest friends and I have fucked each over in the past. It'll happen when you're friends with someone for very large periods of your life, especially if you met while you were young. Take into account things like drug and alcohol problems and there is a lot of room for hurt feelings. I stole the girlfriend of a friend once, he's a closer friend now than he was then. Pretty much every girl I've ever dated has fucked my friends and enemies while we were together, I'm still friends with most of them, the one who consistently fucked me over the most is the one I'm closet with and she's one of my best friends. A friend of mine divorced his wife and first thing she did was start fucking me, but I figured it was alright since this girl I was dating tried initiating a three some with us once and my friend decided to make out with her all night instead of just being a man and fucking her and then somehow she ended up mad at me over the whole thing. My foster brother stole a thousand dollars from me that I owed to a drug dealer that may someday kill me over it. I confronted him about it and he ended up throwing me from a moving vehicle. I guess he figured it was all right though because about eight years before I had stolen a sheet of acid from him, because he refused to pay back three hundred dollars to an ex girlfriend of mine. He owed to her but thought since we were broken up that he could tell her to fuck off. I was still friends with her though even though she got busted with acid and basically put the blame on me, even though it was hers. I ended up taking the fall for her. We're still friends.
I guess the thing is that for me I try and avoid getting close with real douchebags in the first place. I'm a pretty good judge of character and I am in no way a doormat. People make mistakes and sometimes you gotta beat their ass for it, but you don't cut them out of your life completely. I'll cut off a friends finger and bandage him back up and nurse him back to health and kill the next motherfucker he fucks over if the dude tries taking a swing at him for it.
I guess I just love the people I love and I understand that nobody is perfect and sometimes even people I love and care about will get it into their head that doing something totally evil is somehow worth it. I won't let them get away with it, but I won't fucking turn my back on them either. That's why they're your friends.
I think it's also about being secure in your friendship. Sometimes you realize that something things that are really horrible are worth doing, and that you'll get over it anyway. I'm sure all of my friends had very good reasons for fucking me over the way they did when they did it, and I know I certainly have had my good reasons. I may have stolen a friend's girlfriend (actually, technically they were engaged to be married) but that was about eight years ago and I still love and care about her and he's one of my closest friends as well.